tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-681962943423935305.post5110091979438618491..comments2023-09-24T01:52:47.615-07:00Comments on Return to Innocence: Why Don't the Pieces Fit?Saigehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09274842769323024702noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-681962943423935305.post-85223014654658713292010-02-23T09:10:50.814-08:002010-02-23T09:10:50.814-08:00Hubs made a good decision to say he would join you...Hubs made a good decision to say he would join you. I am so happy that you have so much support this time around.Pottershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03755159393111306177noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-681962943423935305.post-20828694676235400202010-02-23T07:47:41.080-08:002010-02-23T07:47:41.080-08:00Oh honey my heart aches for you! I don't know...Oh honey my heart aches for you! I don't know when the pieces fit. Its all happenstance if you ask me. Then sometimes you wonder if all the suffering is part of a bigger plan. If you've read Noelle's and Betty Rubble's recent blogs, they're talking about timing, having to go through something first, to see the end of the rainbow. <br /><br />But even if that's the case, it doesn't help you in the interim. And as a gal who also suffers from depression (and anxiety and OCD) its almost physically, mentally and emotionally UNBEARABLE.<br /><br />My aunt said the worst advice to me Friday when I was in hell with you (I thought that was funny when I read that in your post to me). Anyway she emailed me and said "Life is what you make it, and you can decide not to be a victim of it. Remember, you are as happy as you decide to be."<br /><br />OMG!!!!did I have to email her back and tell her its not that easy. Its not that easy.<br /><br />I feel your pain Saige and I'm hear to listen. Please do the same with me. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-681962943423935305.post-10449128135457903392010-02-23T07:42:02.219-08:002010-02-23T07:42:02.219-08:00Saige, thank you so very much for your sweet and t...Saige, thank you so very much for your sweet and thoughtful comment on my blog. Yes, they will have to take a small piece of my breast. Thanks so much for keeping me in your prayers. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers and I'm glad that your DH is willing to go to your therapist with you.Suzannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14631486802337369463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-681962943423935305.post-89859783119500965592010-02-23T06:40:44.239-08:002010-02-23T06:40:44.239-08:00Sometimes the pieces don't fit right away, but...Sometimes the pieces don't fit right away, but overtime, it will all come together.<br /><br />I'm sorry that you are hurting. I hope that your husband can be there for you as you go through this. I'm happy for you that he has agreed to go once a week with you. That's a big step for him. Hopefully he will be able to get a lot out of the session too.<br /><br />Thinking of you!!Life Happenshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02302134343874268994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-681962943423935305.post-36978117903954007642010-02-23T04:29:08.209-08:002010-02-23T04:29:08.209-08:00Sweetie,
I am so glad DH agreed to go with you. If...Sweetie,<br />I am so glad DH agreed to go with you. If this is that important to you it shows he really cares to have the guts to go. Lots of men would find it pretty hard. I know you're suffering through a really difficult time right now and yes, you probably will feel like you are going backwards for awhile. The main thing is from the sounds of it you are still using all the strategies and resources you have in place to help you get through this. That is all you can do is just keep going to the sessions, keep doing whatever it is you need to do. I will be interested to see what the sonohystogram shows although I understand how scary it all is. I just want you to know if you can't bear to be reading blogs and stuff, it doesn't matter, I will always be here for you. You can always email me if you need a friend.<br />((((HUGE HUGSS))))AnxiousMummyto3https://www.blogger.com/profile/13249605078664682478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-681962943423935305.post-16523899680028320882010-02-22T21:17:10.139-08:002010-02-22T21:17:10.139-08:00it is wonderful that he will go with you!
you f...it is wonderful that he will go with you! <br /><br />you felt your emotions today, you expressed them in a healthy way and you asked for the help that you needed. all those things sound like a very good day; at least it would be for me in the throws of a great depression cycle. <br /><br />you are never far from my thoughts.Jaymeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05386596837111351204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-681962943423935305.post-42440565229939140122010-02-22T20:58:57.668-08:002010-02-22T20:58:57.668-08:00The day will come when you will start picking up t...The day will come when you will start picking up the pieces. I really hope that that day is sooner rather than later. I think your husband was so sweet to volunteer to go with you on a weekly basis. He sounds like a very caring man who loves you very much. I am praying for you Saige and I hope that the time passes by quickly until your sonohystogram.Noellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17217779025743115019noreply@blogger.com