Sunday, May 23, 2010

It Gives One Chills

Sometimes it amazes me just how spot on Ross is with his readings. Sometimes I think I know what he means during a reading, or that I know exactly what he is talking about, only to find out later that what he said had not yet occurred in life. For example, at my last reading he told me to ask the cards if DH really wanted to add another baby to our family. I looked at him with a face that said, "Duh Ross! Are you serious?" I then told him I didn't need to ask the cards because one night after all of this crap with the weak spot in my uterus went down back in February, I had told DH that maybe we just needed to be done having kids. DH told me that maybe I was done having kids, but that WE were not done having kids. At the time it was a total slap in the face.

However, I obliged Ross and asked the cards. The answer that came back was yes and no. I asked him to elaborate. He told me that there is an underlying fear in DH with growing our family. Today DH and I were sitting at the table having lunch with the Munchkin. She was so adorable eating her turkey sandwich and mandarin oranges. I looked at DH and said, "I can't wait to add another one to our family." To which he replied, "I can." I was shocked. Gobsmacked. He has NEVER said that before. When I asked him why, he replied, "money." The funny thing is, when Ross asked me what I thought DH's hangup was and I told him money, the first card I pulled was... you got it, money!

I realize DH was tired today, so much so that apparently his mind-to-mouth filter was off. Had he not been so tired, I am sure he wouldn't have said that, at least not to me. I then asked him if he wanted to wait a while before trying again, even though we already can't start trying until around September. It was then that he realized what he had said out loud, and he assuaged me by saying that it didn't matter, he wanted more, and so we would make everything work. I bit my tongue to keep from bringing up my reading with Ross. However, the accuracy of the reading was not lost on me. Whether DH believes in Ross's ability or not, the man has a gift, and more often than not, he is spot on, to the point that it gives one chills sometimes.

According to Ross, this surgery will go great, everything will work out, and I will have a son next. Let's see if he is right about that too. I am sure he will be ;)

7 comments:

S.I.F. said...

I love Ross... Love him! And I think it is only natural for DH to have a little uneasiness, especially about money. Kids are expensive. He's right though; you two will pull through and figure it out! :)

Shanel said...

I agree with S.I.F. right now it is natural for him to be concerned about money...but that doesn't mean he doesn't want kids--- he would probably be ecstatic if you were pregnant. During the ttc time and waiting time its really easy to start worrying about a lot of things... and according to Ross you will end of pregnant in the future-- so that should still give you LOTS of hope and I'm sure that it will all work out for the best:0

Life Happens said...

I think every guy is concerned about money when it comes to having kids. Some people who have money, still put it off because they want to enjoy their life style. There are those who can't afford it, but have faith, and they make it through.

Sending you lots of love this week!

Noelle said...

I am sure that Ross is right! And my hubby is 39, and he has been citing money as a reason not to have kids for the 13 years we have been married! I think you were right, and he was just tired. Men...

Fran said...

That's just ...wow! I can't wait to see what come next although with Ross readings it's like a preview of what WILL happen next! Love, Fran

Suzanne said...

Ross sounds so amazing! I'm praying that your surgery will go great and that everything will work out well for you!

AnxiousMummyto3 said...

I am sooo jealous that i don't have my own Ross if he is that good!!
This is just a guy's way-I'm sure DH will/would be soo happy when you finally get there. Take care!