Sunday, March 28, 2010

Latest and Greatest

Hello friends, I am about to do something I have not yet done on this blog, and that is give you the address to my primary blog. Why, you ask? Well, because I feel my current journey has made it necessary to provide access to both blogs so I don't have to write the same thing about my battle on each blog. This blog was never intended to be my battle with baby making, but rather my battle with trying to rediscover myself and get my feet firmly planted back in the ground after all of the ups and downs life had handed me since my daughter was born.

What I think I will do is days where I have info about what is going on, I will do a write up on the primary blog, and then post a link to it from here, just in case any of you want to stay in on that loop. I'll still talk about what is going on in this blog, it just won't be as detailed. The only thing I ask is that you not leave comments on that blog that can in any way direct a reader from that blog to this one. In return, I promise not to post on both blogs in the same day. We'll give it a try and see how it goes.

The primary blog can be found here.

Now that we have that out of the way, I will give you a quick update of what has been going on. I went in for an MRI this past weekend that revealed that my endometriosis is back. I have new growths, and if I heard the radiologist correctly, they were around or near my ovaries. I know there were growths removed from that area during my laparoscopy back in 2007. I wasn't surprised to hear it was back, but sad and disappointed. It seems like it has come back way too fast. The radiologist also said she thinks my septum has grown back a little. Once again, I am in that lovely category of things that rarely happen. Hoorah! Don't feel bad. I don't. I just take it all with a grain of salt these days. Like I said, I think my days of being really upset are behind me now.

If you want to read a really cool story about my MRI, check out the primary blog. It will explain partly why...

I have decide I am going to have the surgery and get pregnant!

I am only doing this one more time. I just feel like I have to, and while many people ask me not to, I have to go with what feels right. I know all of the risks, and I know that my pregnancy will be very carefully monitored. My husband says he will support me no matter what I decide, and that we will take things as they come. I spent most of today feeling like we needed to hurry up and do this because we are running out of time. My reproductive organs just don't want to work on their own, so we'll force them to give us one more child, and then they can take the rest of my life off.

All of the blessings that have come about by this have not been lost on me. One of the biggest is that I can now be on my antidepressants for the 9 months my doctor recommended before going off of them. I really love those silly pills because they make handling all of this craziness so much easier. I don't go off the deep end like I would have otherwise, and I bounce back really quickly. Today you would think I had the sun shinning out of my ass as I walked out of the hospital after my MRI. I couldn't stop smiling the whole way home. My husband thought I was a freak when I told him with a huge grin on my face that my endo is back. I told him I couldn't help it, and that it was the stupid pills. Eh, whatever. They make me feel good. They're my friends.

The next step from here is go back to see my new RE here in town to discuss the MRI results, then visit the RE at the May.o Clinic, then surgery, then a couple months off to let things heal, and then TTC #2!

I hope you all had a great weekend. I can't wait to catch up on blogs tomorrow. :)


Heather said...

Silly grin away! I'm here to support you through whatever choice you make...((((hugs))))

Saige said...

Heather you are too cute. There are a couple of people who follow both blogs and I don't know if they know it. I figured all of you would find out if you followe that link though. lol!

I will follow you on this blog because chances of my reading it every time it is updated are better simply because I don't follow as many blogs on this one. So on days where I only have a few minutes to read up, I log into this one. But shhh! Don't tell anyone that! ;)

Life Happens said...

Sorry to hear that the endo is back. But it sounds like you have a plan though. You have to do what you feel is right and leave it all in God's hands.

AnxiousMummyto3 said...

Yes I've definitely been following both, the part about the bowl prep was pretty funny!!
You definitely got a bunch of signs pointing you towards giving this another try!! How weird that you met those women just when you needed them, definitely seems meant to be. Anyway, if you change your mind again, just know that I am here for you no matter what, just to support and stay beside you.
In answer to your comment on my blog-yes, you are special!!

Fran said...

Fantastic plan!!

I'm not clear though, do you prefer us to leave comments on this blog in any case? Love, Fran

Saige said...

Fran you can leave comments on which ever blog you prefer. All I ask is that if you leave them on the other blog, you not allude to this blog in them. :)

Potters said...

You know I am always here to support you. I may have no idea just what you are going through but I am always willing to listen and give advice or my thoughts when you want them. The best part is that I know you will just throw out my thoughts if they don't go with what you want and that is completely fine with me. Some times I just don't know what to say to you. Just that I care about you and that I am glad you have the support system you have.